You do this by appearing to be desperate. This is the worst thing you can do! This highlights another important psychological fact. As author Vernon Howard once wrote, "whenever one knows that you desperately want something he [or she] tends to withhold it, Ford gives them a very satisfying sense of power over you. He knows as long as he keeps you at bay that you will continue to seek him out. That gives them a great sense of self_importance that he won';t easily give up." So the most important step you must take to win your ex back is simple __ but it may seem contradictory at first. That is, to win your ex back you must get out there and meet other people! This will send a powerful message that you are not dependent on any one person. By increasing your popularity you will send the psychological message that you have something going for you, otherwise you wouldn';t be so popular!,
Another tip would be to look in to a so called tax_sheltered plan, these plans are also called 401(k) plans and most times are offered by your employer. It would be wise to join such a program and put as much money as you could possible afford in it. your employer is allowed to put extra money on top of the portion you put in, they will get a tax deduction for this as well so everybody is happy with this type of plan. A final tip could be to give some thought towards investing you money, the way you save is at least as important s how much you save. No matter how much you save just be aware that you need to put something aside if you want to enjoy the golden days with the same, or even more, joy as you did your working life.